Your wedding day is a momentous occasion filled with joy, love, and celebration. Among the many expressions of well-wishes and congratulations, gifts play a significant role. Handling the gifts brought to your wedding requires grace, gratitude, and meticulous organization. From acknowledging each gesture to ensuring their safekeeping, managing the influx of presents is an essential task that adds to the overall joy and appreciation of your special day. By approaching this responsibility with care and thoughtfulness, you can create a seamless and memorable experience for both you and your loved ones. Here are some tips on gift etiquette.
Designated Area
One thing that is important is to have a designated area where guests know they could drop something off if they brought a card or a gift to the wedding. This can be done by having a card box prominently displayed on a table that is set away from the rest of the festivities.
The table should be set up so that cards can be placed in the box, and there is an area available in case anyone brings a gift in a box. Make sure to label the area clearly so guests know where to leave their cards and gifts.
Designated Person
All your friends and family love to help you on your wedding day to make sure your day is the best it can be. One way they can help is by designating a person to keep an eye on your cards and gifts for you. They can keep a watch for guests who are having a problem finding the table, and they can make sure nothing happens to anything that is placed on the table.
Another good idea would be to try to keep a count of how many items were placed on the table, if that is possible. It is not unheard of for something to get caught in a tablecloth or slip off the table, while the table is being cleared for the night.
Transportation
The person who is watching the gifts could also be the person who takes all the gifts to the location that you designated before the wedding. This way you won’t have to worry about anything besides being a newlywed for the night. This person could make a list of how many cards you received, and also if they know who the card is from. Additionally, they can handle the gift list as well.
Etiquette
While receiving cards and gifts brings a lot of joy, you should not look at them while you are at the venue. It’s best to wait until after the wedding to open your gifts. This will give you time to thank your guests properly and avoid any distractions during the reception. Since you have designated someone to watch the gifts and cards for you, you are free to mingle and greet your guests.
Thank You Cards
Sending thank-you cards is an important part of the wedding process. Make sure to create a schedule to help you stay on track by sending out thank-you cards in a timely manner. Ideally, you should send out your thank-you cards within three months of the wedding.
When writing your thank-you notes, make sure to personalize each one. Mention the specific gift that was given and how much you appreciate it. You could also include a special memory from the wedding day that involves the guest.
Consider ordering custom thank-you cards that match your wedding theme. This will add a special touch and show your guests how much you care.
Handling cards and gifts at your wedding may seem like a small detail, but it can have a big impact on the overall experience. By setting up a designated area, having someone responsible for collecting and organizing items, and creating a thank-you card schedule, you can ensure that everything runs smoothly.
